The purfling will not solve the gap issue and I agree that you really need to have a gapless joint.
If you don't have a #5 type plane the level with 120 grit self stick will work. While candling circle the areas the are in contact and then with the level concentrate on the marked areas only. Even though the 24" level is still touching the entire joint if you just put your pressure on the marked/high areas it will take these areas down more. Repeat the process until you have no gaps.
Be advised that a freshly planed joint (with-in 15 minutes) will always make a better glue joint then a sanded joint. Also, if you use the level for the top change the sand paper or you will get a dark line down the center seam of your top.
Good luck - jointing can be very frustrating and but you will get better at it I am sure. Check out Luthier's Suppliers (Tracy) (link above) for his new offering to joint plates. I have one and they work great!