Joe--I sympathize with your attempts to scrape cross grain especially in spruce. Get too aggressive and it will tear out causing a great deal of sanding to repair. Try tilting your scraper to various angles when scraping to see which works best. Also try skewing it to give it a shearing action in combination with the tilt. There's many combinations of the tilt/skew so try various approaches. With all that said, I prefer using power sanding either DA disk or RO rectangular for doing the recurve. It's faster and the trick is to keep the sander moving even if it's in circles with the rectangular pad RO. I guess this applies to most any sanding application. Also, don't be afraid to hand sand or scrape across the grain especially in spruce--you'll find it works much faster and better at not bringing out the growth rings. The downside to power sanding vs scraping is, of course, the noise. And there's also the feeling of craftsmanship associated with scraping.
I've never had the patience and/or skill to roll what I would consider a reasonably aggressive edge on a scraper. I use the belt or disc sander to quickly generate a burr and then back to scraping. Beware of the sparks in a woodshop, however.

I've found that sharpening by sanding parallel to the cutting edge(s) of the scraper also gives a smoother cut that sharpening across the edge. I suspect that the burr produced by sharpening parallel is somewhat similar to that produced by rolling and burnishing back the burr. I do, however, respect those craftspersons who've mastered the art of correct scraper sharpening.
Keep building!
Nelson